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Al,

Health insurance could have a high deductible, so he is paying this out of his pocket because the deductible is not met yet.

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Nope - he even told me his copay was 20.00...

What to do??


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I dont know your entire situation, so I hate to get this wrong.

But, I'D make an appointment to speak with your H. 'Do you have time to talk with me alone later this evening?'

Calm
matter of factly... no anger

When you get his attention, tell him what you know and ask him if he knows why this is?

then say nothing
nothing, no anger

not a word till he speaks

calm, you're just curious...

No suggestions, no 'do you think they lost the paperwork?' nothing.

calm

and let him explain it.

That's what I'd do - Dru

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I am going to have to delete this thread because I called insurance company back and the last claim they have for even just me is from 11/4/05 - 11/17/05 and I do not believe my H went before this time... SHOOT!!!


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good to know....

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