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i need everyone input on your definition of what is a affair
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any contact with another person that the spouce knows nothing about. is the best way to put it. holding hands talks on the phone sex and letters a lunch or dinner a kiss if you are married anything with any other person besides ur mate is an affair.
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I know that what I would define as an affair is different from what my H would define as an affair. It is like the phrase "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", I guess the definition of an affair is in the mind of the betrayer. I know that makes no sense. I am just saying that to me ANYTHING that comes between a marriage falls within the realm of an affair. Emotional affairs are often more damaging than phyiscal affairs. I want to tell you that I have ask myself this question many times. Are you concerned about your spouse or yourself?
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An affair is when you allow your ENs to be met by someone other than your spouse.
And by doing so, you exclude your spouse from meeting those ENs.
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