hello crazyhurt,

how r things going for u. have u leatned anymore. havent seen anything from u for awhile just wanted to see how u r and make sure u r okay, let us know how your doing.

ive stepped away from sit after talking to ow before xmas. she is major drama queen, and im tired of playing.she texted me that if h wanted update he could call her. but h hasnt cause he has no interest in talking period to her. he still feels no oc untill oc is here. im going to respect that. i didnt even call her. i cant tell u the relief i feel after deciding to let it go. turn it over to god, and let my h deal with it however he decides to do it. i have finally realised that u just cant be friends with some people, and in certain situations. boy, i feel so much better. i do feel god wants us in this oc life, so i will leave it up to him to decide when and how.

well hope to hear from u soon, hope everything well with u and yours, imtswife

Hello there,

My H and I are in Hawaii. I'm working, he's vacationing. We're doing fine. No Petition yet, I think she had to prove her H's paternity first. I'm sure once that's done, we'll be hearing from her.

We are doing fine. I've been busy on the OC board. I'm so glad that your doing well. I'll be sure to keep you posted. Take care.

Let go and Let God, honestly, is there any other way? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

hi,

glad everything good for u. wow hawaii, i couldnt think of a better place to work. ive read up on the laws in washington, in your case if u lived here her h would have to petion the court dening paternity before she could ever make your h prove anything.in washington he would only have 2 years in which to prove he was not, after that it wouldnt matter.her h being her legal h would also be oc legal father.

theres a few new people in your situation, they made me think of u. i so wish our ow had been m. but oh well. ill get through.

i just found the oc forum but lately it doesnt go to the site. is the site down or am i doing somthing wrong, i would really like to go there.

anyway thanks for letting me know how your doing, HAVE A GREAT TIME IN HAWAII.... all were getting is rain, rain, and more rain.

bye for now, imtswife

The site is having issues. Go to a search engine and type in "otherchild.com" then click "cached page", that should put you on. Of course, noone sees my point of view. I'm holding my own though. I plan to speak my mind.

Thank you for the info. I know she expected it to be easier. Let her do some work. We'll handle our side. Alright, it is about 9:30pm here and about 2:30am at home. Let me get in the bed. I have to work in the morning.

I hope your doing well imtswife. Take care.

CH

imts, i will send you a link that will get you to the forum.

Basically, the site is down but the forum is still up cause it is hosted by different providers.

Crazy, now not everyone diagrees with you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> lol.

C.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Thanks Carolyn...

Hey now, not me either. I agree with most everything you say.

I was reading over there on oc earlier and they are talking about the posts (stories) over here? about Lynn and someone else's husband. The OW say they read MB for amusement. I just cant get why they are so into personally attacking the wives on this board and over there. I guess its the whole they wanna be the WIFE syndrome.

I don't know if they want to be the wife, but they do want to be the chosen one, if you get what I'm saying. They have a difficult time understanding that they and the OC is not the first and only thing on the MM mind. It's difficult, and it's not all of them either, but most.

Please get over there and give me some help. They never wear me out, because I believe what I say and have no problem in saying it.

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Thanks Jaxyn