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My wife has an affair. She told me that. I have read the book "Surviving an affair". Do you think I should give the book to my W? Is Plan A or Plan B something she should know about?
We still live together but she doesn't knw whether or not she will stay with me or OM. In fact, she's on the phone with him right now. Talking about computer programming... Yeah, right.
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adrian, your wife should not know about Plan A or Plan B. MB is your secret weapon. I don't believe you should give the book to her either. She is not receptive to ending the affair. You can fight for your marriage, but don't let her into your arsenal.
Later, when recover begins, she could be more open to learning about rebuilding. For now, she is in the Betrayer's Fog. (Don't tell her that; it is for your insight only.)
Welcome.
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Thank you Bellevue
I only told her that I read a book that helps rebuilding marriages. She was not intrested anyways to read it. She also doesn't know about MB.
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