Reading emails I found some from a OW to my H and it was nothing nice. He has told her that he thinks she is the badest thing he has ever seen and wants to meet up with her for more than just meeting if you know what I mean. I have emailed her and told her that he is M and she got really real with me blaming me for our problems and said she will go after him anyway.He said that is what I get for reading his mail but will not stop talking with her he lies about it saying she is a made up person and all kinds of other stuff to prtect her. what to do ?

I wish I had some advice for you. I'm in a similar situation with my boyfriend of 2 years. He's got a habit of getting himself wrapped up with women online, and phone sex via text messages on his cell phone. It's very hurtful to find out that the person you love is betraying you like this, and I really wish there was a "miracle cure" to erase the hurt and put the trust back into the relationship. I'm really sorry this is happening to you. *hugs*

Thank you things have gotten worst than before he hides from in the house nad will not talk to me. I think someone has been in my house while am at work. How do I catch him at this one?

He should be standing beside you since everything that you have been through. I can't understand how men lie about saying things like it's a made up person, or we imagine things. Have you asked him to go to counciling with you? Most important, are you in it for what you have indured? I know all of us women love our husbands, but why do they keep hurting the ones they are supposed to love. We stand beside them and take care fo them, and in the end look what we get. The OW still emails me, even though they have not connected back together, I made sure of that, I keep the car and she can't get into the plant to where he works. You are number one and you need to try to focus on yourself and it might help you some. You are going to be going through alot, so try and think of yourself, I know it's going to be hard, but my prayers will be with you.

Thank you soo much I was talking with someone after it all happened but that has been years now him get help Ha Ha that won't won't happen trust me. It all lies on me it is my fault and i got what I deserved thats dog I blame him thats why he won't won't talk to me. I will be fine after I release some of this rage but how I really want to blow up how can I ?