We got married on October 13th 2001. We had dated since the summer of 1999. Acoodring to her, she started being unhappy with our marriage around the fall of 2004. In the spring and summer of 2005, she says she felt like a single parent. I was busy a lot during this time with my real estate business. I did not notice anything until she started getting angry at me for no apparent reason. I found out later that during this time she was thinking about leaving. To the point of looking in the paper for apartments. Around the end of october, we had a discussion which was mostly me complaining about being treated poorly. The next day she starts a discussion and tells me that she has been unhappy for months etc. On top of that she tells me she cheated on me while she was in another state on a business trip a couple of weeks previous. She cheated on me with a woman. At this point I spiral into a depression for all of November and most of December 2005.
We have been to counseling and she told the therapist that she would not contact the other woman. On 1/19/06, I found evidence that she is still in contact with this woman over the internet and has been pretty much the whole time. We have a two year old son. We have both stayed together this long mostly because of him. I do not want to be divorced but I can only take so much. Can we salvage this?

Hello, Mopic. Welcome to MB. You'll definately find alot of support and encouragement here.

Just a question here...Were you ever aware of her preferences, in any way? She may be going thru some kind of identity crisis, followed by alot of confusion. Just a thought.

Anyway, you might want to post over on the "General Questions II" board. It's faster paced over there, and you will get a quicker response.

Good Luck with your situation...