Well, his infidelity seems to be an on going problem another woman another state, except this one is married too. And I have hard evidence: to call her spouse or not to call her spouse is my question. He has got her a cell phone in his name. This is too much. My world is crashing. I was 7 days form being Divorced and he came to my town promised to change went to a weekend to remember and and called her the next day. Then went back to the state we were living in before i moved back home to see her. This man is evil. Why did he drag me into this again if he knew he wasn't going to change. He was calling my pastor crying then would hang up with my pastor and call her. I stayed because i felt like i had to. If he had just left me alone I wouldn't have needed his signature on divorce papers. I feel like such a fool! We went to counceling with my Pastor and his wife, I sat across the table from them and told them he would never change and I had been hurt too many times. My pastors wife convienced me that they were seeing changes in him, and he was not a lost soul. Boy did he have them fooled. They talked me into going to this whole weekend to remember thing, and I wanted so bad to believe in him. And I had so much false hope that I once again took him back. Less than 2 months later I discover the truth. I feel so stupid. I knew he would never change. I feel so hopeless now. I have moved away from my mom, dad and sister, and havent started a new job yet, don't want to get out of bed most days. IT HURTS TO BREATH! I am such a fool. I know I am better than this.
My sister says everyday get up and say "It starts today, this will not control me, and I am bigger than this!" You would think at some point i would just be used to it. Can I get alamony or at least help moving back home from the court. I know I can't file Divorce till I've live here 6 months already called a lawyer.
Please Advise