I've been divorced now for over a year and I've been on this site for atleast 2 and I just wanted to recommend a book that you may or may not have heard of called, "Codependent No More." It kinda hit home for me in a lot of ways and it's helped me to deal with my feelings and take care of myself.

I was obsessed trying to get back my wife when the whole time I wasn't happy but I felt complete by taking care of her. When she moved out of my life, I never felt so alone and abandoned. I wanna recommend this book to anyone else out there who is struggling to find the light at the end of the tunnel.