Well,
The STBX emailed me ealier with a bunch of untruths. She said she chooses me. She wants me. She says we can rebuild our marriage.
I replied to her mail exposing her untruths. Not to hurt her, but they were lies, and she even knew that I knew that they were lies.
I got home tonight to find another email from her. Now she wants a divorce, no ifs, ands, or buts.
If I would have given her another chance she just would have quit again. Proves me right. Her moods change as the night does.
Even during her very active adultury I tried and tried to save our marrige, but I will not accept lies. Nor should I have to.
She said she "knows what is required of me (her)", but did not, and has not done any of those things. Including NC and transparent honesty.
She equates LB's to me exposing her lies. She said she had blocked OM from her email and IM long ago and has not talked to him. Even though she I know she talked to him at least a week ago, and she even told me she talked to him on Jan 4th. (in which she told me she thanked him for IMing her again) Now how could he IM her or email her if she blocked him "long" ago. And she was supposed to have deleted all emails of hers that he knew of. This was just one of her untruths. She told me she doesn't want anything to do with Stevevialasvegas, but she keeps webcamming with him.
She has told me I know there are plenty of decent people out there as I have met some really great ones who are alot of fun to be with, I guess that shows her commitment.
Anyway she wants the divorce now. That makes it easier on me, I don't have to worry about if "this time" she actually was sincere. I asked her to show me actions instead of words, and again she had nothing to offer. No actions, just words. I asked what she is doing, not "what she will do" and she answered divorce.
She lied about what she did, and didn't offer to do anything different.
