i've had a hard time replying back to you all on my first post.so it was easier for me to star..."> i've had a hard time replying back to you all on my first post.so it was easier for me to star...">

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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />i've had a hard time replying back to you all on my first post.so it was easier for me to start a new one.
thank you for answering to my first post.
we've have had contact with oc since oc was about 1yrs old.and from day one, ow has always been a pain in the"you know what". ow made sure to tell i'm not oc's mother and it's none of my bussiness what goes on with oc.she will never talk to me,or even leavee a message, with or no voicemail.she'll just call back fifty million times.even when it's an emergency(at least she thinks it is)or when i tell her h is not home.she is a very sick puppy.
two years ago,she tried saying she was pregnant again,and she was having a boy this time.of course we said show us proof,of course she couldn't provide any.well anyway we found out different from her sil, ow had her tubes tied when she had oc.we even told her we knew this and she denied it.she even told our caseworker at childernservices she was pregnant and due in sept.we let her play her game. then when sept. came around, she went as far as saying she had the baby,but he was still born.H asked for proof again, and when and where was the funneral going to be. she said it was already done. H ask where he was buried at, she didn't know her mother took care of it all. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />oh please all mothers would know and be there.she is really sick <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
well back to the subject on hand, i am really trying not to take it to heart when oc says anything about me not being the mommy and all sorts of other things.but it's never ending.and it still hurts.
i've never insisted on oc calling me mommy, oc just always has,and it felt like a very natural thing.
well i'm babbling on,sorry. well any way thank you all for the advice, it has been very helpful.
please keep talking ladies, i will always be listening <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />. this site is very very helpful


MARRIED; 3/27/1996 #? MARRIAGE FOR ME; 1ST FOR H 0 CHILDERN TOGETHER 3 CHILDERN FOR ME; O FOR H,OC IS HIS FIRST AND ONLY D-DAY 2/16/2001 OC BORN; 7/2001
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Did you make a call to child protective services???

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would that child the supposed stillborn have been your husband's oc as well?


ALL OW DON'T RESPOND OR COMMENT ON ANYTHING I POST EVER. I'M NOT HERE TO SPEAK TO U! I am here to speak to other BSs that Can relate to my situation and OUR shared experiences. I COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANY OW HAS TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING, EVER!

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