I guess it's truly not her choice other than she suffers from unhappiness. She told me this is what she wanted and it's for the best. Also she has given me a draft of her settlement that I'm heading back to my Lawyer in the AM to go over and she wants quick settlemnet on? Sounds to me she don't really want to save this...along with her telling me she loves me....just not enough. I guess, I'll go to bed now and see what Tueday morning brings. Thanks.

Hey, I did'nt return her calls yesterday...but she did'nt leave any message other than..."are you there". Tonight she had phoned several times wanting to know what when on at the lawyers? She said...he must think are agreement is good? And I told her no...that he made no mention....it is pretty much fair as we are only using 1 lawyer and it's total aggreement disilusion...I think thats what it's called in Ohio....but this evening (wed.) we talked and now she wants to trade her engagement ring for our bedroom suite after the thing has been submitted to the lawyer....again see told me she loves me...but not enough to keep trying....? I guess she knows that the ring..."I paid almost 8000 for 8 years ago is really worth more than the furniture...might just make her feel better. It's hard to talk to her and have her say that she loves me as she tells me good-bye. Why do the (fww) say that?