I just wander if anyone can relate to my situation. Long story which I will make short..


I had an EA, freaked me out.. Made me look at our R and we went on to mc. Things got worse, we separated, I filed.. He continued mc and anger managment classes. I thought we had changed, we got back togeter... struggled through mc off and on.. H changes were not permanant... We (together this time) decided we just can't make this work. This was 7 months ago. We put the house up for sale and decided to stay in it until it sells, then separate. Our kids don't know this although I think they have an idea.. they are 13, and 16.

But, I just feel so in limbo. I actually finished school and starting working which I love. But, we have no intimacy and are just like room mates. It is so hard. I don't feel like I can really move on. I am sad and scared, but also frustrated because I just feel so stuck. I like it when he is gone because he always tells me what and how to do things... feels like a relief when he is away. To add to it, he got a second OWI so I have to drive him everywhere and it makes me feel angry.

Just wandered if anyone has been in this kind of situation..

So is he currently drinking?