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I am in the process of divorcing. I too still love my husband but he has moved on to someone else. I have good days and bad days. The bad days tend to consist of me remembering our good times and how we complimented each other so well. We enjoyed doing so many of the same things and our families and friends were so close. We created so many happy memories in the time we spent together. Anyway, my question is for those who have been divorced from a WS for some time. Do they ever come back and say they regret what they have done?
BS - 31
WH - 32
Together 9 yrs/Married 4 yrs
No children
D-day 7/5/05
He's been living with her since
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I have known or known of about 10 men in my life that have in some form or fashion, tried coming back. I have only known one wife to take him back, and he cheated again.
Usually my friend, when they come crawling back, you have moved on. It is hard to believe given the emtional pain you are in.
It is now up to you to concentrate on yourself and heal. Healing takes time....
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Joined: Jan 2006
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I have been divorced now for 2 years. I have not heard from him. I have heard he and the ow ( now his wife) are splitting. She is cheating on him I have heard. And I can confidently say that if he were to try to walk back into my life that I would say no. I am not the same person I was 2 years ago. I have healed and have found peace. I have moved on. He has changed also into a person I would have never looked twice at. But with time comes peace. A year makes a big difference. Just focus on yourself. Make yourself happy. Be a better you for you! We are all stronger than we will ever know. If God brings you to it he will bring you through it.
exwh 31, me bs 31, ow now wife who cares how old :P
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