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It's not in depth, but it was very disturbing to me that there is a service that helps you have an A. Go to the link and choose Buy An Alibi .

WGN-Chicago

It's a 4m 38s video.


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The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.

BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
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Great. Just what the WS needs - additional help.


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what a downer.

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Im in chicago, this must be why I never watch channel 9 news.


me31 h(fw)35 dd13 DD H's ONS june'04 H left Aug11'04 found out about OW aug14'04 H came home Dec28 1st recovery started in Feb 05 Apr. 8 continued contact discovered ow and i confront Wh, H chooses marriage Am I a fool?
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Great. Just what the WS needs - additional help.

LOL, I chuckled when I read that reponse...


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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What kinda guy looks around and says hmmm I need a career lemme see.....I know let me be an utter scumbag and then have the gaul to say that it is helping marriages by letting the WS do what they want without getting caught. How does that guy get out of bed in the morning and look in the mirror.
UGH!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />


Me BS 32 Him WH 30 DD 5 DS 3 DD born Feb 6 He filed Feb 23 He moved out March 11
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Oh wait, maybe he knows my IL's.
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Mine too!


me31 h(fw)35 dd13 DD H's ONS june'04 H left Aug11'04 found out about OW aug14'04 H came home Dec28 1st recovery started in Feb 05 Apr. 8 continued contact discovered ow and i confront Wh, H chooses marriage Am I a fool?
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Good Lord, what's next? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Just disgusting...................

-Caren


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7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
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Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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That is just plain sick. Thank god that news didn't spread to other networks.
Just what ws need. A way to decieve and carry on their affair in secret. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

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Where's the puking smiley?

I need the puking smiley.

Responsible journalism my left tush cheek.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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How does that guy get out of bed in the morning and look in the mirror


Perhaps because he has never had a meaningful relationship of any kind in his entire life. He can not imagine the pain felt by either a BS or a truly remorseful WS.

Because he has never loved or been loved.

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I am the BW,
He is the FWH
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I, of course, made sure that my FWW and I were doing something else during that broadcast. I saw the previews of the "special news segment" and started to shake. I'd like to say that I can't believe that someone would have a job like this, but then again there are some pretty sick people out there.


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The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.

BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
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PA: 3 months
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Interestingly, on British TV there was a programme on last night "How to Divorce without Scarring the Chilren" or similar title.

I didn't watch it, perhap it was responsible. I made sure my FWW and I were busy for that hour, instead.

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The owner of the business says it's a good thing to do because Alibi Network "Allows people to do what they want (cheat) without hurting anyone."

What an amazingly stupid thing to say.

I can't believe no one has sued the h*ll out of this company yet. Fake hotel receipts? Fake business documents? How are the REAL hotels and business going to feel about that?

The world is full of people willing to sell their souls for a few bucks. But I'm glad WGN ran the story. We need to know what's out there.
Mulan


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WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.

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