I was raped on 9/11/2002 while out walking to meet my husband at his job because he had been coming home late and I thought he was having an A this guy came up behind me and grabbed me and beat me up and kidnapped me and rapped me after he did this he told me the reason he did it was because my husband had been screwing his GF. So after that I got the police and I had them go to my house to find my husband but they could not find him nowhere. So after the hospital and all they took me back to the place it had happened and all then they took me home. My husband could not understand what the police told him and the only thing he could say to me was that you don't looked like you got raped. And later that day he went to work leaving me home alone and he did not return until 6 the next morning and he got off at 12am. Now after all this time the guy was caught and locked up having raped 4 other women and trial starts 2/20/2006 now my husband is hiding from me he won't really talk to me I think he is having another A with women he has met online and meets them at the store down the street from the house I cry all the time now because the dreams from the rape are back and he just acts like nothing is going on with me. I think he feels bad but doesn't know how to talk to me my question is how do you make a blind man see?

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I know you want your husband to stand beside you and let you know everything will be ok, but for some reason men think different than we do. My husband had an affair for 9 months and I didn't even suspect it. The Ow emailed me right before Christmas and let me know, that really destroyed me. He was planning on meeting her, but that was really messed up when he couldn't reach me on the phone, I thought that was really funny because his plans were messed up. Just hang in there and hopefully your husband will see that you really do need him at this time, I really do feel my problem is just so minor now reading yours. I hope you find the strength to get through this even if he does not see the light.

Thank you I have a plan to catch him in his tomarrow he thinks I have to work I am parking the car somewhere else and coming back to hide in my house lol