Ok, hubby hasn't been w/anyone but me and well all I know is of course what I have read and discussed but I have never discussed sex with men.
Dh and I have a great time in bed but I want to know if there is anything I can do to make it more pleasurable for him. I know he would be thrilled if I did something that neither one of us thought of.
I tried a few times to play with his nipples and he said he hated it, something I read would be great.
Any ideas on places that will feel good to be touched and how?
I know every man is different and that what works for some might not for others but I want to make sure I am not in the dark about something that could be fun for him. His b-day is on V-day and I thought I could make it more memorable. He says just touching the penis is great but it can't be that simple, can it?
I hope this post is ok. I don't want to offend, I just want to learn and be able to please him in ways maybe we don't know about and I thought this would be a good safe way.

i wouldn't worry about offending anybody, but i do think you might get more responses ont he EN board.

i am not a man, but here are couple of things i have learned. they love to look...strip for him, show yourself to him.
good oral sex.

Thanks nia...I moved it so maybe someone will be able to help me add a little more fun!

Yup. And definitely the last one <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />.

A surprise foray into the twilight zone during lunch or any time is always welcome and as MIM said, And definitely the last one. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> Wherever you are at the time the urge hits, sometimes even while he's driving <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> is a sure fire winner. If that doesn't get his attention then you need to call a mortician. Just my .02 of what works for me. Now if I could only get my WW to remember that I would be very happy indeed. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Don't cheat on him. That'll make him happy.

LOL - same here! If my W was to show even 1/4 of the interest in SF, particularly OS, that I'd like her to show, I'd be a happy man indeed <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />.

be sexually submissive. that should do it

My wife discovered that taking some of that KY heat lotion? and rubbing the head of my... at a medium pace... Yeah, that pretty much does it for me. I don't even care about oral anymore, unless I'm on the administrating end of the deal <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> (can't get enough of that). It's irritating for a few seconds, but then it feels so good it sets my feet "on fire". Unfortunately, she likes to stop and start again... That's just annoying, but telling her that just excites her... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> It might be worth a shot, or I could be an exception...?

Oh yeah, and that nipple thing... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> I have to be really turned on for that to work, otherwise it's just torture.

ask him what he wants. then do it.

don't for example buy a book of 365 different positions, 1 for each day of the year, and toss it aside and never use it.

And of course, have sex, a lot. The more the better. Oral is always good, both giving and recieving. How about shaving a heart, you know where. That'd surprize him.

For a good time, dial 69. >:OD

the back of their neck and ears is sensitive (use your breath while hes on the phone maybe or working on a project)

fingernails on the center of his palm while you are walking in the mall

fingernails on their skin lightly anywhere (down the arms, on the back)

suck his toes, or kiss his eyelids

many men never get a woman being agressive towards them. try walking up behind him, caressing his shoulders and then slowly move your hands down and brush them over his penis...

hmmm, i need to go find a man now (LOL)

I love it when she breathes hot and soft in my ear. Soft Moaning in the ear works wonders too. Soft carressing w/ finger tips on the back of the neck... also a major plus!

the palm thing... meh.

Toe sucking... each to his own...

Get near my eyes and i will destroy you!

Aggressive can be fun, but it can also be torture.

I was laying sideways on the couch once w/ a g/f making out. She rolled and yanked me to the floor, landing on top of me. Almost knocked the wimd out of me, but it was sexy as heck. I'll never forget that.