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For all those who know my FWH had an ONS back in June of 05 and since then things have been wonderful between us. Now I have this other girl bothering me telling me that my husband and her were doing things when we first started dating. She has changed her stories so many different times that I feel like I am in high school all over again. I've asked my husband about this the other day and as soon as i said her name he said i had that f*cking pyscho. She has even gone as far as getting a job at the same place he worked at before he enlisted in the army then ended up quitting when she found out he didnt work there anymore. She has been contacting me on my AIM name and I've blocked her but she comes up with several different screen names and she is just very rude and vulgar to me. Ive asked her to leave me alone let me live my life with my husband and kids. She has a rep. for doing this sort of thing. I've talked to several people in the area about her and thats the first thing they tell me is not to believe a word that comes out of her mouth she just likes to start trouble. My mom seen what she wrote last night and she just said she is just an immature girl who got turned down and cant find anything else to do besides cause trouble where none needs to be started to begin with. I called my husband last night crying telling him the things she is saying and he was very consoling and just told me that he'll take care of her. I said i want to be present when he talks to her and he said alright. I"ve reported her to AIM, im hoping they can do something about her. Its just getting very old and im sick and tired of this old high school crap. Im at my wits end with this girl is there anything else I can do besides trying to ignore her but she still contacts me.
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
NC- 6/28/05
Exposed A 7/1/05
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One, I just thought I would give you this: (((((((((((((((ONE)))))))))))))))))))) hang on, and I would ignore her personally. JE
D-day 5-18-05 35 BS (me) 52 WH 17 DS 15 DD 14 DDs twins Currently in R. "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference" The Serenity Prayer
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If blocking doesn't work you may have to change all of you communications stuff, email, etc... Also change and get an unlisted phone #, change cell #s etc... I know it's a hassle, but something you can control and hopefully use to turn of this contact that is causing you a lot of grief.
"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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So far this morning....I have called AOL she is banned from using AIM for three months that outta make her happy! I changed my screen name and I have it set up not to accept messages from people I dont know and for her not to find my new screen name. She doesnt know my email address I have changed it so she could send it to my old one which i dont check anymore. We have an unlisted number but I am going to call the phone company just in case and when my dad gets home I am going to have him call verizon to change my cell number bc i do get a private phone call once in a while and nobody is on the other end. So I am making these changes one at a time. Its stupid you have to do this but im listening to people on here and what my mom and what my hubby is telling me. So far we are good to go! Thanks for the help!
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
NC- 6/28/05
Exposed A 7/1/05
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