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first post so bear with me. I have been married eight months. Just here recently everything has changed. I have noticed I am tearing our marriage apart. I have finally figured out what is bothering me. Used to I could kiss her with no problem. Our personal relationship has changed severely. We dont talk much. I just dont know what to do.
Any ideas
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How are you tearing the marriage apart?
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I am always the one that get the arguements started. I am told that I dont listen, think, that I dont show her that I love her and many other things. Right now we are at a point that she says she will have no trouble to walk out on me. I am lost and totally depressed and do not know what to do.
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"I am always the one that get the arguements started."
Is this you owning that you do this, or being told that you do this?
"I am told that I dont listen, think, that I dont show her that I love her and many other things."
That is her opinion...what is yours? What do you know as your truth?
"Right now we are at a point that she says she will have no trouble to walk out on me."
Anger talks and if the person allows it a voice, this is what it says..."I'm done. I don't care." That's an emotion talking, not a belief.
The belief is "I wish I as done. I wish I didn't care."
"I am lost and totally depressed and do not know what to do."
Answer my questions...you can learn a lot about yourself.
LA
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