He signed the paper work today and Now I just have to wait the 60 days then the divorce is final.. I am feeling kinda sad and kinda angry...Sad because he signed so quickly and he didn't even look hurt and this is killing me ..Angry because I feel like he has ripped my heart out and when we were done signing the paperwork he told me he loved me and ask me for send off sex ...I am sure I will be fine Just today is really hard for me ...

{{{{{angeleJ8}}}}}}}

I am so sorry. It is hard to believe that he would be so clueless! Wow. So sorry you are going through this.

I can only imagine the pain.

Take care of yourself.....

Daisy

THAAAAAT'S about deserving of a kick in the crotch <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

Sorry, I'd expect no less from my wife if I ever asked something like that. I know I'd deserve that kick.


FN

Okay so now he is going to call me every day
He called me last night and this morning.. "just to check on me"... is he trying to keep his foot in the door or what .. I told him that he is the one that wanted out of this marriage and I just gave him what he wanted..(I guess the OW is gone or something.). He has gone from --Itty to nice.. What gives Am i entering a plan a or b without even trying to

Angela,

One thing you will notice when you are here for some time is that nothing the WS does matters. They are in a fog. I use to not believe that, but I do now. Don't waste your precious energy trying to figure him out. Seriously, it is a waste. In their foged out brain they actually expect you to NEVER stand up and continue life. They are so full of entitlement, a child of 4 has less. He expects that you are breaking down as we speak and cannot live without him......etc....etc....his actions after the D still shows that it is all about him. His "comfort" is what matters not yours.

I don't mean to be harsh....you can ignore my post....I just hope you don't get your hopes up. My H use to call me all the time after he left me. He was concerned....to this day he sings the same song....no matter what I do, how I try to continue my life, move on, he still things it is about him and "me wanting him back".....selfishness of the WS knows no bounds....(that should be my new sig. line).

Take care of yourself.

Daisy

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