Well, the long winding road is coming to an end. We have filed for divorce and we will not be reconciling. Fortunately, it doesn't appear that it will be a nasty D at all. We are communicating well, and have agreed on just about everything thus far. I want to thank everyone that has given me advice here at MB's. This has been the most challenging time in my life. I never realized how fragile I was until this came to a head. You folks have been very beneficial to me throughout this process and I really feel blessed to have found this place. I still love my W, and she loves me, but we have both decided that there is just too much water under the bridge for it to ever work. We have tried to make it work, but there just seem to be too many issues. Wishing everyone here the best of luck and hope that you will continue to help people through their crisis'. I will probably be checking out from this site now, although I may be periodically checking out the divorced/divorcing forum.

Me-BH-34
Her WW-35
Married 11 years
1 son 1 daughter
1st D-Day 10/04
2nd and real D-Day 03/05
3rd and hopefully final D-Day 7/05