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#1587917 02/10/06 04:38 PM
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Can anyone recommend a good free keylogger that monitors aim? I am afraid if i purchase one with our credit card, my wife may find out. Im not sure if anything is going on, but i feel if it is, this is the best way to discover something.

Thank you

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H and I are seperated but he was coming over last weekend and I decided to get the keylogger just incase he did use the computer. I did not really want to spend 60 bucks (or whatever) for one use (H doesn't really come by here anymore), so I downloaded a free trial version. I got it for 5 days. I found another email account and his password. It was all I needed to know....confirmed my suspecions of what he has been upto since last year and some over stuff way early into our M that I did not know. Anyway, downloading a free version for a couple of days may be a good start!

Good luck!

I really hope it is nothing.....I hate to see more people hurting......

Daisy


Me: 30 WH: 29 WH: left May 8th, 2005 Now: no contact with WH since 07/02/2006 Ark on Plan A plan a tips and musings...get grounded here betrayed spouses...............JUST BE STILL...........
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thats how I found out about my wifes affair. Go to www.download.com and search for keyloggers. I used ultra keylogger, but just pick one with a 7-15 day trial and make sure it has screen captures so you can see both side of any IM conversations. I am sorry you are going through this- I know what it feels like. Good luck

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I tried a couple before I found a good one. There are some really bad ones out there, so be careful. This one is great and has some great reviews:

www.waresight.com

It also takes screenshots, so you can see what they are looking at as well (incoming email, etc).

SFofficer #1587921 02/11/06 05:17 AM
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Can anyone recommend a good free keylogger that monitors aim? I am afraid if i purchase one with our credit card, my wife may find out. Im not sure if anything is going on, but i feel if it is, this is the best way to discover something.

Thank you

Can u give more info why you feel you need this?

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Orchid #1587922 02/12/06 07:43 PM
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Im not sure how much to suspect, I know she has an email address that i never knew she had. It doesnt have the same password as her normal email addresses. Sometimes when she is on the computer and i walk towards her she will quickly close instant message windows or browser windows. Ive even caught her looking at someones picture, she said they were photos from a school event. She never attended the event or mentioned going so, im not sure where the curiousity is coming from. Other then that i dont have much to go on, she is usually home with me and always answers her cell phone so i dont think contact has gone beyond the computer, but i would like to stop anything that is happening before something does happen.

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Closing windows when you come near the computer is a big red flag. Install the keylogger.


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