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Hey Jennifer, remember how you did last time? maybe it is time for that again?
I have not read the book. I have been so swamped with work lately I haven't read much at all.
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Yeah, I've been pretty busy, too.
It's one of those books, that once you start it, you can't put it down. It's pretty good. It's truly amazing their marriaged survived!
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Does it paint a fairly true picture of how the bs feels? I wonder because so many don't post a true picture of infidelity.
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Well, the infidelity part might not be the main focus, but enough of one to hit home. And you really do get the BS's POV. It's about a guy who truly put himself and his wife thru ALOT of you know what. Not just infidelity, but the whole nine yards. It really is amazing, and helps to restore faith in ALL areas of life.
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That sounds great. Maybe I'll put it on my list to read while I am down from my surgery in April. I love to read and that will give me a chance to some reading while I am down.
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What kind of surgery do you have to have?
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hysterectomy/bladder tuck up, etc. fun, fun, huh? I am working with a trainer to get into the best possible physical shape hoping for a guick recovery.
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Oh my goodness! Sounds pretty intense! Well, I will pray about this, Move. This does not sound like it will be very pleasant! Maybe you should also get a laptop, for your recovery, so you can stay in touch, during that time.
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already have that. I have it ready to set up in my room instead of its usual place on the sofa. thanks for the concern <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Well, you're already on top of it all! Good deal. I might be need'n ya' around here, ya' know! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Ooops, gotta a phone call, I'll check back... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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I'm getting progressively more stable-minded each time I come back so maybe I should stick around longer this time <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Hey, I'm starting to like this guy. He's too funny. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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Yeah, a real STITCH, eh? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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BRAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *ATTACK*!
The advice given is not that of a professional and may be in conflict with Marriage Builders.
The advice is of high quality however.
I can give best insight when the relationship in question is that of two people and one God.
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I read some of the stories on TOW, first i felt sickened, then sorry for the people who have no control over their lives.
The advice given is not that of a professional and may be in conflict with Marriage Builders.
The advice is of high quality however.
I can give best insight when the relationship in question is that of two people and one God.
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Must be ALL that sensitivity you have!! Did you finally get to cry??!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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I think Shadpoo is the same guy who posted a year or so ago...only he was a college student or something with a girlfriend. That guy also mentioned being ADHD, and I think, bipolar, as well. He was also always spouting off some of the same psychological mumbo-jumbo that Shadpoo spouts. I'm also thinking that he may also have been that guy who was posting on EN about how to make his wife change her behavior to suit him. BTW, he left off the last letter to his name...the second "p". <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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What a dud! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Last edited by Jennifer68; 02/13/06 12:56 AM.
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Maybe he finally passed out.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Or the men in the white coats found where he had sneaked into an office at the asylum to use the computer. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
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LOL...Lady, I'm sure this is more likely the case! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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