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FWH asked that I post this here for everyone to see, as a BS may benefit from reading it and FWS too...
I wrote it to him because the cookie cutter valentines cards just dont cut it anymore....I wont quit my day job..lol

A VALENTINE FOR YOU

I once had a love that stood the test of time
Knowing that forever he would be mine
Sharing love, memories, a life with another
And then with you, I became a mother
4 children we share forever, for life
All because you made me your wife

My hero, my lover, my husband, my friend
A love I knew would last until our end
The ups and downs, with you by my side
Through thick and thin, and me as your bride.
The feeling of tenderness that came from the heart
In sickness and health, till death do us part

The love had grown, changed over time
Stressed from life’s demands, yours and mine
We walked different paths, you and me
Both of us knowing that was not the way to be
The path grew larger, and the love became more distant
And choices were made in an unthoughtful instant

A call came that shook that love to the core
To hear that my lover had strayed for more
And left me with heartache, disbelief, shock and pain
The denial, the anger, the sadness, and the shame
The tears that flowed that day could have filled a sea
And I sat and wondered if we were ever meant to be

The man I loved had shared his love with a stranger
Forsaking his vows, putting our family in danger
The reasons I am given do not begin to cover
How his choices lead to the bed of a new lover
Being left with the pieces of a puzzle undone
I sat and wondered, was there more I could have done

Now time stands still, even and calm
How can he show her he never meant any harm?
His choice, not hers was hurtful and wrong
To decide to betray the bonds of loves true song
Now their love is broken and shattered
And she sits and she wonders if she ever did matter


Now it is time for him to make amends
To show her that they can actually be friends.
To do what is right, to love her and cherish her
To be a better man, husband, friend, and partner
The road will be difficult, the path may be dark
The light will be shining, to lead to my heart


D-day 5-18-05
35 BS (me)
52 WH
17 DS
15 DD
14 DDs twins
Currently in R.
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference" The Serenity Prayer
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JE & you FWH,

This is very moving, THANK BOTH OF YOU for posting it.


"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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Justempty,

Thanks for posting this...I'm printing it out to read to my FWS tonight...


BW (Me) 39 FWH (41) Married 14 yrs DS 4/2000 DD 12/2002 DD 8/2005 PA 1/05 - 9/12/05 D-Day 10/13/05 Status: Trying to rebuild
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That was beautiful.. thank you


Me - BS 34 WH - 39 Married 9/17/05 (2nd marraiges for both) Friends since childhood EA - 8/05-10/05 D-day: 10/19/05 (I moved out) Moved back in together: 12/7/05 I moved back out 2/22/06 due to emotional abuse and very mild physical abuse 7 children between ages of 6 months and 15. I moved back in on 11/25/06. We are still each in IC...
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Thank you for posting this beautiful poem. It made me cry.

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My FWW wrote this short and simple one...

My love for you is endless
I say this with all my heart
Please be my valentine
For we will never part

Last edited by Hopeful4future; 02/14/06 05:58 PM.

Hopeful4future


The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.

BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
Happy that I've moved on
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Thank you for the kind words. I will however keep my day job. I love to write poems, but not real good at it.

I started it a week before VDday, but triggered hard on friday and could not finish it till this am, and so it is quite choppy to say the least.

I hope FWH likes it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


D-day 5-18-05
35 BS (me)
52 WH
17 DS
15 DD
14 DDs twins
Currently in R.
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference" The Serenity Prayer
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Thank You my Wonderful Bride for posting such beautiful words of wisdom, It is so moving everytime I read it. I am so lucky to have found you and to be your husband. I knew others would benefit from it also. I love you so much, see you after work.


Me WH 52 BS 35 DS 17 DD 15 DD 14 DD 14 D-day 5-05 LTA- 11/02 - 11/04 When you feel in your gut what you are and then dynamically pursue it - don't back down and don't give up - then you're going to mystify a lot of folks. Bob Dylan
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Thank you... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


D-day 5-18-05
35 BS (me)
52 WH
17 DS
15 DD
14 DDs twins
Currently in R.
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference" The Serenity Prayer

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