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Okay yesterday I got this poem from my wh soon to be ex
IN THE MORNING I AWAKE,UNDER THE MOON I FALL ASLEEP. I SMILE UNDER THE SUNSHINE,AT NIGHT IS WHEN I WEEP. YOUR KISS IS MY GOOD MORNING, YOUR TOUCH IS MY MIDDAY. AT SUNDOWN YOU ARE IN THE DISTANCE,AT MIDNITE YOU WALK AWAY.IN MY DREAMS YOU RE TO THE EAST ,IN REALITY I LOOK WEST. I BREAK AND MEND WHEN THE SEASONS CHANGE, WHILE WISHING FOR THE BEST. I HANG OFF YOUR YOUR EVERY WORD, YOUR IGNORANCE IS BLISS. AND ONLY BECAUSE I LOVE YOU,IS WHY I LIVE LIKE THIS !
Today I recieved a dozen white roses....
Is this the Fog..
Someone please give me some answers as to what is going on with him Should I Thank him for the flowers ?
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I don't know what to tell you . I am playing those same games as well. Ofcourse it makes it harder becuase we are still living together until the D is final. This is hard. What is wrong with them? I have no proof that my husband is in a current A. (I do have proof of one from 04). but there are just way to many lies, to many cover ups for this to be anything but an affair. He has told me that he wants out cause he's just not happy and he can't make me happy. Yesterday, my husband also gave me roses. And we had a wonderful evening, but I'm thinking. What is wrong with you? I'm sorry I can't give you any advice. Wish I had some for myself.
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Do you think that maybe they are so sure of us .... that no matter what they do we will be there... Or maybe it is to keep there foot in the door..Have cake kinda thing...
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Yep, I think you got it! I think my H knows that anytime he wants to come back that I'll be there. But I'm getting tired and worn out from his games. We have been getting along great (still living together) but here lately I'm getting more and more frustrated. I'm trying not to LB, though I dont know that it'll do any good at this point. But I don't ever want him to be the one that can look back and say "she is a real *****". Ya know? but at the same time, he is using me. So at this point I just don't know where to turn. I don't understand how we cna have these moments of bliss, and then when the D is final and I move out...how he can just say "ok were through now" and just be happy with that. I just don't get it. but you are in my prayers, stay strong!
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