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Sorry this happened to you and welcome. I'm certain you will hear from him again. It sounds like he has been living a fantasy life.

We see things like this all of the time. Husbands leave their wives, and even their kids. But they usually come back.

Keep reading all of the information here, and it will help you decide what to do next.

Hello Tibby.

I suppose you know how Thailand is. And what it's about.

Do you know if she's a local girl?
There are thousands there after any caucasian man. They do anything to cacht them.

You need to know exactly why he went back, for the lifestyle or for a specific girl. Lifestyle as in, paradise beach, night life and a diferent "Thai Beauty" of any age, each night.

Is he working there?
Where is he staying, Bangkok?
How old are you two?
What is he planning? To return? When?

From what you say, if he still wants you and your relationship... maybe he truly love's you and your're the one he wants to marry and have kids with...but, he's just living this "paradise" thing till he returns to reality.

Be carefull of STD's... It's really hard for a man alone in Thailand not to get involved in anyway with any kind of local girl. They are young, pretty and are very, very open with sex. All they want is to get out of there and that means get a caucasian man. And even if they they don't have any kind of expectations they will still have sex or anykind of relationship with them.
IT's very, very hard for a man there to resist the temptation.


He migh realise all that and that's why didn't leave you... He's in fantasy land and getting addicted? And wants to get out?