My husband has been acting strangely for several months now. Then starting about two weeks ago, started coming home several hours late from work, but he's only late on days he takes his own vehicle, he's right on time when he carpools. He has various excuses for this, like meetings with the boss and other employees. But both times I mentioned it to one of the other employees, they didn't know anything about a meeting that morning. And h was furious that I asked, even though I brought it up in a round about way, like one of them called here and i said "wow, sounds like that was quite a meeting this morning, what with Justin getting fired and all" to which his answer was "what meeting?? and J got fired???" So this morning H calls (works nights) saying he has to work late, waiting for the boss's call telling him where to haul the load. So the boss is the only one I could call to verify if he's actually working late. Sooo, should I? There will be ****** to pay if the boss mentions to him I called, and if there's any way for H to explain working late. (it really doesn't make sense because they have a day crew that comes in right as the night guys are leaving, to take over where they left off, and they even have to exchange trucks) So what do I do??? There's warning sirens going off in my head that this doesn't add up!!!

CALL HIS BOSS... I had to do that when my hubby said he was working overtime too. I hated to call his boss but I did and boy did I get an earful. not only did he tell me when and where my hubby went he said please do not tell your hubby I told you!

THe one thing iv learnt from my husband having an affair is that,you should always go with your gut instinct.sorry but i believe if the thought is in your head your probably right.Speak to the boss and ask him not to menton it,I dought if he will want to get involved.Good luck