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Re: Just when I thought I wouldn't be here again....
Drucilla #1593564 02/27/06 05:53 PM
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bumping for OnlyUCan...
Re: Just when I thought I wouldn't be here again....
Drucilla #1593565 03/03/06 01:04 PM
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Please tell me you are OK - Dru
Re: Just when I thought I wouldn't be here again....
Drucilla #1593566 03/03/06 03:04 PM
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Since then, he has continued to have OW in his life. From what I know, there has not been any physical interaction, just emotional.

Am I reading this correctly that he has never actually been faithful to you? That OW has always been in the picture? For your entire relationship and before?

Just how much pain can you expose yourself to and keep on loving this man? I am not being insensitive, I hope, but do you really see this as ever having a happy ending for you?

Picture yourself one year, five years, ten years down the road having gone thru this again and again and again, and having your children never see a relationship that is wholesome and healthy. You could be dooming them to the same type of life.

You can fix yourself, but only your WH can fix himself. So he is sorry, again, so he is going to do whatever he can to make things right, again. Is he in IC, cause he can't do anything for you until he figures out WHY HE KEEPS CHEATING!

You are right, it isn't about you, but it does impact you.

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I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03

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Re: Just when I thought I wouldn't be here again....
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Hi Whome,

Her H has various OW's... like the grocery story woman in this recent episode. He's a player, prowling for new OW's. Big porn issue and hookups via the internet.

her signature line:
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SA, Internet/Cell/In person EA's from the start
Too many D-days to mention!!!
Slowing to once a year...is that progress?

The saddest part is that she stays and allows him to hurt her, time and time again.

Please, onlyUcan - please take care of yourself!
Re: Just when I thought I wouldn't be here again....
Drucilla #1593568 03/23/06 05:46 PM
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Hi OnlyUcan..
I hope you are doing well. - Dru
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