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Can anyone tell me the best way to check stuff on the computer? I know my H permantely deleted emails is there anyway to get them back? He also deleted an AOL screen name. We still have the account but not that screen name. Thanks!
BS 39
FWH 39
M almost 14 years
DS 11 DS 8 DD 4 DD 4
PA 1/02-7/02
dday 12-15-05
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I doubt there is anything you can do about things that have already been deleted.....BUT, you can install spyware to catch any NEW stuff. Get a keylogger program.....trust me, WS's are dumb enough to return to the scene of the crime and do it again <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> God Bless, -Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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HopingFor:
There are software programs to recover deleted files: when you trash a file, what happens is that the pointer in the disk directory is erased---but the file remains on the drive (it will eventually be overwritten). If it hasn't been too long, you can often recover this information. It takes some time and experience to pull off.
Caren's suggestion of a keylogger is a good one---it'll help catch you up on any current shenanigans...
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LH, I just discovered they moved Actmon to another website at www.actmon.com
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