I feel like I've been rejected, but I haven't even been dating.

Perhaps that's the problem.

I don't know, I just don't know!!!!

There have only been a few guys that have interested me since my divorce.

The first one, I didn't realize he was hitting on me somewhat. To dazed from the seperation.

The second one was just to good of a friend to x and myself.

The third one went after a married gal who was in the process of divorce.

The fourth one is a good friend, just doesn't see anything more with me then that.

The fifth one I don't know, seen him once in the bar and a couple times in church since then.

I think somehow I scare guys without knowing that I am doing it.

Have been very down this weekend, had trip out of town planned to go see my brother with a girlfriend, wanted to go as it wasn't here, but always feel like a fifth wheel when with them.

Just kind of pondering the question why not me? Why is it that guys don't like me that way?

It's been a long 4 years!!! I just want someone to care about me and to care for me in that special way!!!!

UGH!!

Dawn <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

I don't know.

Not really sure.

Are you smiling and have open body language that say "hey I am friendly?" or is your body language closed.

That might be it.

Why don't you tell MANY MUTUAL FRIENDS YOU'RE READY TO DATE...they can get the message out for you?

Or you could "get out there" and do the internet thingie ...I am doing it as I don't have time to go out and meet guys and really feel like tossing my tacos by attending a singles thing or a bar..not my style. Church? I am at church for faith..not for a social encounter.