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Poor Jolivar's in a pickle. Help him out guys! His W is living with his 19-yo bro now! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...part=1&vc=1-AD
A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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AD....going to look at the post now <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I have a question....if the people on that list are *winners*.....then what does that make me??? LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> ..........Don't answer that <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> God Bless, -Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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Sorry KarenMc,
If you feel like a winner, you are one!
I didn't think of every registered poster and name ALL the winners - just a few that I felt were more qualified than me - since I'm divorced now - and possibly could have averted that through greater snap in my soggy plans.
-AD
A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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LOL AD, I was just kidding.....any title that's an attention grabber....that's what I always say <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
I think you giving Jolivar great advice!!! He's just really panicking right now, so he's not catching it all....he read's it, but he's not absorbing everything. It'll be that way for a while.
I remember doing that very same thing when I first came on here....I typed everything mach 1 and wasn't really able to absorb the advice I was given....and so I'd post again, asking the same questions.
He needs to focus, he's thrashing around in pain right now, and while that's understandable....it's not going to help.
Reading the books he's reading is a good start.
I can't even BELIEVE his brother had the balls to go stay at his house.....that takes some serious nerve.
So anyway, I'll keep checking in on him.....I understand, it's really hard to listen to any of this when it first starts....you just don't know what to do.
We'll just keep plugging away AD.
And btw, please don't sell yourself short. I have never seen you give anyone bad advice. You're better at this than you think you are.
God Bless,
-Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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Well it's 4AM....I should probably go back to bed LOL!!!
See everyone in the A.M.
God Bless,
-Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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