This is another thread from a previous one concerning finances and feeling controlled by husband,

I don't want any of the money from his ex-wife's mother and have never asked him for any of that money. He willing put it into the OKC house. I have asked him to get a separate account that only he has access to for that money after the house is sold. I will get a job an pay off bills myself, he can keep the money and do what he wants with it.

I don't have any friends or family here, so their shouldn't be a problem with me going shopping or anything else after work. As for my mother, she says that whatever we decide to do because if she says either way she will be wrong somehow.