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I've been lurking here for awhile, just wondering what can be done to get husband to tell you the truth? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
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Make him think you already have the truth. How good are you at bluffing?
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. I really think you have to catch them for most of them to be truthful. If you accuse them without proof, they just get to be better at hiding things and lying.
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yep I used bluffing to get more out of my H got alot more info there, told him I saw her in a store and we talked. And then I went to the source.
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bluffing has gotten me nowhere. He is a notorious liar. About EVERYTHING to EVERYONE. I will post my story in the recovery forum when time permits. I am lost and dont know what to do or how to get him to tell me the truth.
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I am new here, and have been perusing the threads. This one caught my eye. My husband would lie even if I had pictures! I have been doing some good snooping and have lots of evidence-including confronting him and speaking with 'her'....they both lie to me and he has confessed to lying to her as well....He has a temper (I have only seen it from a distance) so I have to be careful, but how can I eventually let him know all that I do know? I think most of it will have to wait until it's totally over, but not sure! I hate having to get a divorce, but can't live with the on-going lies and hurt........I will continue to read and thanks for any help.
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Hi Kat, I wish I knew ways to trick him into telling the truth. I just dont have any tactful ways since he is getting po'd at me every time I ask him a question.
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