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OW gets served with notice of us taking her to court for custody Friday. The lawyer is going to set it up so she is served after we pick up the kids for the weekend....Wookie told him that once we pick them up, she jets to her mom's to drop the kids off so she can go drinking. So both addresses are going to be on the papers. We also got temp orders for the same visitation schedule - us getting them every weekend and every Wed. overnight so she can't say, "But that's not your weekend...." b/c she's been giving us the kids so often so she can go out - we've been tracking the days/nights we have them....this month so far we've had them 19 days.
I've been kinda feeling a bit sorry for her...I know, weird after all the ****** she's put us through....but after lunch today, I don't feel that bad at all. Wookie dropped the kids off right before he came to get me for lunch, and mija CRIED hard saying she doesn't want to go, and she wants to stay with us....VD (her initials for you newbies...no joke) got pissed that mija was crying and says, "FINE! I'm going inside!" She goes inside, slamming the door AND LOCKS IT! With mija outside!!!!!!!!!!!! The child is only 3!!!!!!!!!!!!
And of course, mija had bugs last night. I had gotten a comb at the $100 Store that actually zaps the f**kers as you comb the hair! IT WORKS! No poison...no mayo....the only work is to remove the nits, you have to do that with any treatment....poor baby is so used to nit picking that she just sits there........how many 3 year olds do YOU know that would just sit there??????
Let you know Monday how everything goes!
- Kimmy
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wonderful! I feel bad for her in a way but her treatment of the kids is just not right.
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I did too Faith, but then she does this stuff to mija...
It's like when mijo was born mija became a non-person. It's so sad.
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" /> for mija
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Outstanding story girl. Glad you still feel somethin for this poor individual, Shows your True character! Which is a gem! Here's to everything working out in Your (and their) Favor!! Will check back in when you Post. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> (blushing) Thank you TR! I really, REALLY couldn't have stayed without you angels and all the wisdom here. I've thought about leaving here - specially cause it's so hard to see the hurt all the time....then I want to shout to everyone [color:"purple"]SEE? LOOK WHAT OVERCAME....IF I COULD DO IT WITH WHAT I HAD TO WORK WITH....ANYONE CAN!!!!! [/color] I still think if I'd found MB right after DDay#1 OC#2 wouldn't be here...but who am I to look a gift horse in the mouth. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> It's all in the perspective, right? - Kimmy
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kimmy---you are one special lady
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Oh I'm praying for you too. I'm so glad they have you Kimmy!
I don't feel bad for her at all, sorry but I don't...she should be in a halfway house drying out and doing some serious introspection.
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(((Kimmy))) you are one special special person and i'm glad to "know" ya <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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We're fine.
She didn't do or say anything this weekend to indicate that she was served. How's that for getting your hopes up?
Actually, Wookie said when she called to talk to the kids Saturday she seemed "down". But then, he said she could've been hungover. When we went to drop the kids off at her mom's last night, we passed a cross street and who should be at the light? Her boyfriend (if you remember, we don't like leaving the kids there because she filed a complaint on him at Thanksgiving for beating her up)! Not a minute after we stopped there, did he drive up. We're wondering if she did get served and asked him to leave while we dropped them so we couldn't log that he was there. Him being the jerkwad he is, he WOULD show up anyway just to cause a scene...but we dropped the kids, and drove off...but it got logged that he was there.
So no news. I will try to keep y'all updated.
- Kimmy
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Looks like the papers are going to be served tomorrow. DARNITOL! We're supposed to have the kids tomorrow, too.....
In the immortal word of Bill the Cat:
"oop! ack!"
- Kimmy
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