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"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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I'm so sorry, but the water is really, really awful. But I do understand what you are saying. My H threatened me with D for a year. When the papers actually came, somehow it was a relief.
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Me - far from a perfect person - but trying to improve all the time
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Sorry - you had to move over here. Personally, I'd rather be on the Recovery Board - but, the only recovery will be my own...the M is way beyond recovery..
I like your signature line...it's soooooo me... The right to remain silent..if only I could..
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I would say welcome, but none of us really want to be here, so best we can do is help each other get through it.
Have to tickets to Ron White's show in April. Hopefully I will be able to laugh again by then.
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WH 48
D-day 6/28/05
Divorcing 2/06
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I'm sorry that you are here too Eagle. And that line is me too, I have the right to remain silent but I just can't sometimes. We all have to stay strong, I am no one to be preaching to anyone about being stong. I am weak. But if I can encourage someone else to be stong then I guess it makees me feel bettter.
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Water is cold but warms with time...Do what is best for you don't give up unless you really want to.. No matter how she insists that divorce is the answer...Maybe this tough love will be what it takes to let her see that she really doesn't want to let you go
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Hmmm, I don't know about everyone else. But the last post there from N&I just gave me a glimmer of hope. Which, again..there they go again. My mind arguing with my heart. Mind always wins!
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Asked this question over on the GQII thread, but no answer so I thought I'd ask here.
So...is the plan divorce, or reconciliation?
The two are mutually exclusive...if you're working towards one, you're moving away from the other.
So which is it Eagle?
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