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Hurting #1599246 02/25/06 03:15 PM
Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 4 N nevadamike Junior Member
nevadamike Junior Member N Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 4	I have negleted to meet my wifes needs for many years. I thought that I knew how to meet them, but I had only recently understood what I was doing wrong. She will not take me back. She says that the walls are up and her heart is closed to me. I have explained to her that I understand my faults and I am learning how to deal with them and that I want to make it up to her for hurting her fo so long. It appears she is not budging. Does anyone know of a way to break down that wall. She is my world and I wont be able to make it without her.

Re: Hurting nevadamike #1599247 02/25/06 03:46 PM
Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County B believer Member
believer Member B Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County	Welcome to marriagebuilders. It is a great place to be under the circumstances. Read all about the emotional needs here. Try to figure out what your wife's are, and start meeting them. Actions are better than words. Are you still living in the home?

Re: Hurting believer #1599248 02/25/06 04:00 PM
Joined: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,823 C CarenMc Member
CarenMc Member C Joined: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,823	Do you suspect an affair??? How long have you been married? What are you and your wife's ages? Any kids? God Bless, -Caren Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied. BS-Me 39 WH-37 Together 15 years Married 12 years 7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16. Mine: DD22, DD15 Ours: DD12 Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.

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