I have been in Plan B since xmas. Have had zero, zip, nada contact with WH since then. He has had only very limited (1 or two emails) with the kids.

Yesterday, I received a letter from my lawyer with a "settlement offer" from his lawywer. It was a joke. It was the exact same offer he had been making me before christmas, and I have already said "No way". Why in the world would he expect me to settle for less than what I am getting now to get a divorce I don't even want???

I am thinking this may just be an attempt to coax me out of plan B with "negotiations". I mean, if he were really serious, it seem like he would have come up with something a little different.

Anyway, since he went thru his attorney, I guess I need to give some sort of response thru my atty, but that will cost $$. I am thinking of sending a message thru a intermediator instead simply saying "I am not interested in a settlement." and leave it at that.

Just by way of a little background....he filed back in April 05 after I began making noises that I was on the verge of filing. He thought he would beat me to the punch and filed out of state. I had to counterfile here in order to get the case moved back to where I live. Right now I am not sure how to proceed legally. If I ask the court to dismiss my case, where will that leave me?