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Where Do You Stand?
#1600034 02/27/06 01:25 PM
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Hi all,

I have been lurking here for about two weeks and have found this discussion board extremely helpful to me--really a lifesaver.

I would really like your input, advice, wisdom, etc. with regard to my situation and I want you to have an accurate picture before I put the energy into it. My relationship is/was a 5-year co-habitating, lesbian relationship.

If this is okay with most or some of you, I'd love to get your feedback. If you are not interested in discussing it, I will accept that and will continue to get my help by lurking.

Thanks.

P.S. I am also an atheist and would not be interested in help, advice or suggestions include scripture, prayer, etc.
Re: Where Do You Stand?
Chaka #1600035 02/27/06 01:31 PM
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la la land aka land of fruits ...
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la la land aka land of fruits ...
Chaka, go ahead and post your situation. We have had others similar to your relationship here before. No one will give you spiritual advice if clearly state your preference which you have.

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Re: Where Do You Stand?
Chaka #1600036 02/27/06 01:45 PM
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Discussing an R happens all the time. The principals we learn here have helped many.

I will send out a request and see if those who have experienced what you have stated can come and help.

L.
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Orchid #1600037 02/27/06 02:42 PM
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Hello, Chaka. You aren't the first. A good friend of mine was in a similar sitch -- a ten or fifteen year relationship.

"Virtue -- even attempted virtue -- brings light; indulgence brings fog." -- C.S. Lewis

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