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Is it okay to send a letter to the OMW when on multiple occassions I have called her but not reached her. I am concerned that now that I have contacted the HR department about my WW and OM affair on hospital property and time that she is going to hear this from someone else or her husband will get wind of the HR investigation and start making up lies.
I would like to send the letter today, via FED EX, PRIVATE, so that only she can sign for the package of else they take the package back with them to the store.
Thoughts please.
Last edited by hopeandpray; 02/28/06 04:39 PM.
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Good idea! If you can't reach her, I would either send her a letter, or better yet, go to her house and tell her.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I would send the private letter. That gives the OM's W some privacy and a chance to digest things. The OW's family member called me, and I was grateful that I could hear the news without anyone else around. I really don't know how I would have reacted if he had told me in person.
CSJ
BS (me) 34
FWH 32
Married 1997
DD, 4; DD, 2
PA 10/04-10/05
DDay 11/17/05
In recovery
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I am going for it. I have tried repeatedley to reach her by phone to no avail. I just missed her one morning by about 5 minutes. I am concerned that information will begin to leak and that she will hear it from somewhere else and not be prepared or her cheating WH will have time to make up more lies.
Thanks
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