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Hi Jennifer.....

Things have been going great for me.....I really haven't had a lot of time to look in here.

Thanks for thinking of me. I am yet....UnMoved!

D papers are filed. They are having a hard time trying to serve WH. He continues to be elusive.....I don't know if by chance or if by contrivance.

I have moved all but the largest of his belongings out into the garage. The locks on the house and tool shed have been changed. So, the only place he can get into is the garage.

A friend told me this evening that she heard from WH's friend that he knew I had a lawyer. How does he know this info?

WH talks to DS occasionally. Today DS told me that WH wanted the money from the rental (where DS lives next door) in person. So that I couldn't get my hands on it.

My mind reels with thoughts of why he wants the money in hand so badly. I wonder if he thinks I will blow the money and he will have to pay the ENTIRE mortgage (the rent pays half of the mortgage). AS IF.....!!!

I wonder if WH has now convinced himself (and others) that I am the fiend in this whole mess. WHATEVER!!!!

Let them think what they will......if they all think that, then they never did really know me very well.

My biggest obstacle to overcome now is to just get thru all of this, and to STOP having it be the biggest thing on my mind, and in my conversation.

I stay at home, do what I can on my limited income (pay bills, buy food, etc), and mind my own business.

I am still UnMoved. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Kathy <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


AKA UnMoved Me55 WH 53 Married 34 years Son 32; Daughter 30 A for 5 years or ? WHO KNOWS??? D-Day May 15, 2004 D finally final Friday, October 13, 2006
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You sound good, UnMoved! Nobody said this would be easy. But doing what's "right" isn't always what's "easy".

Of course, it helps a little, when you're mostly emotionally dettached. Then it just boils down to negotiations. Eventually, it just becomes a mild irritation, like a pesky sales call. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

Well, I'm happy to have heard the latest with you! Keep up the great work, and keep us posted here! You are truly an inspiration! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Take Care...

Jennifer

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