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Watch it with him (but carry a 2x4 just in case! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />).

A good whack might work! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />(Can't believe that I said that! NOT!)

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I am a FWW early in recovery (7 months.) I watched this movie with my BH and we had some interesting talks about it.

I thought the "fantasy" Johnny created in his head about June (before they were coupled) was pretty realistic. He kept that fantasy alive in his head for years and couldn't (or wouldn't) work on his marriage because of the "fog." It really seemed all about him... even up to when he proposed to her on the bus. I suppose it was meant to be, but still...

H and I both agreed that his W was portrayed very one-sided. While their communication difficulties were obvious, there's no way someone could be so naggy and mean all of the time... his father was portrayed this way, too.

H likened Johnny's fantasy of June to Niles and Daphne on Frasier (lol)... while I love Johnny Cash and I thought the movie was great, it was hard for me to watch at times... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


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Just goes to show that there is little truth in anything Hollywood does. Sex, Drugs, Affairs, and so on are hot and sell movies. As long as we buy them, they will continue it.

I think bronwyn said it best:

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If we boycotted every movie that exulted adultery, there wouldn't be much left to see, lol!

The last CLEAN movie for adults that I saw was the one with Nicholas Cage stealing the Declaration of Independence (?name?). I think the language in this one was not perfect but I have no problems with it. Why can't there be more like this??

Me and my darn old fashioned ways..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

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H and I both agreed that his W was portrayed very one-sided. While their communication difficulties were obvious, there's no way someone could be so naggy and mean all of the time... his father was portrayed this way, too.




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NASHVILLE, Tenn. - Kathy Cash, one of Johnny Cash’s five children, was so upset about how her mother is portrayed in the upcoming movie “Walk the Line” that she walked out of a family-only screening — five times.

She thinks the movie, which opens nationwide Nov. 18, is good and that performances by Joaquin Phoenix as her dad and Reese Witherspoon as her stepmother, June Carter Cash, are Oscar-worthy.

But she also said the film unfairly shows her mother, Vivian Liberto Distin, Johnny Cash’s first wife, as a shrew. Actress Ginnifer Goodwin plays her in the movie.

“My mom was basically a nonentity in the entire film except for the mad little psycho who hated his career. That’s not true. She loved his career and was proud of him until he started taking drugs and stopped coming home,” Kathy Cash said.

Vivian Liberto Distin died earlier this year as a result of complications from lung cancer. She and Cash were married 13 years and had four children together. He pledged to remain faithful to her in his song “I Walk the Line.”

Kathy Cash also said the movie fails to include any meaningful scenes with the children or show the pain she and her three sisters endured during their father’s fight with drugs and their parents’ divorce. She says it portrays Johnny Cash’s father too negatively.

“Anyone who wants a good sex, drugs and rock ’n’ roll movie is gonna love it,” she said. “I’m anticipating dyed-in-the-wool fans objecting to a lot of stuff.”

John Carter Cash — Johnny and June’s only child together and an executive producer for “Walk the Line” — says his half-sister’s criticisms have merit. But he says it’s OK to take some license and that, in the bigger picture, the movie succeeds in telling his parents’ love story.

“I’m compassionately understanding,” he said, adding, “the point of the film is my parents’ love affair.”


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This says it all, doesn't it....

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