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My wife has had an affair. Are there any former wayward spouses that would be willing to talk to her. I think she needs some help in decifering her feelings. She feels like she loves the OM. I feel like I'm no help. Please, I really need your help.

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Absolutley, there are a few of us here.


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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
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Thank you. How do we go about it? Just have her post or could I have her private message you?

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There are no private messages...but there is annonyminity (can't spell today)...you know, annonymous. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I'm one, FF, Dorry, many others...and yes, she can talk about what she feels and thinks. We were there once, and came out of the fog. You need to set up her account, though, to block all posts by you (they become invisible) and you block ALL posts by her...swear to it...for the good of your marriage, 'k?

Any chance you guys are getting counseling individually yet?

There for your marriage, Mark...

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Mark, there are two threads for FWW's right now if she wants to start there psst RLD and other FWW's and this one A thread for FWW - recovering, FWW changing and growing


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DS 30
DD 21
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