What I saw was his current age posted.
He says he created that profile 7 years ago and that the age would automatically adjust when b-days occur.
How true is that?
Thanks for helping me with everything lately, everyone. Something just isnt right. My gut, I trust.

7 years seems like a long time for a profile to remain on a pay match making service. You could always send them a note and ask their policy on profile retention.

My profile appears to have updated itself with regard to my age. That being said, I don't remember when I registered...think it might have been 2 years ago...

Regards,

Brit's Brat

Thanks for the responses so far.
How do I figure out when he first registered?? I would think most places would post when registered like here next to all our names.
Thanks again.

I believe you can search within your search group for *newest memebers* I think it lists them newest to oldest as in when they registered.

My neighborhood is jointly trying to find someone for one of the neighbors.... lol

Hope this works, carnation

One of the match sites I belong to automatically updates your age. It doesn't cost you anything to be on it. It does cost to have contact with others.

Match.com does update your age.

More importantly is the fact that you can also easily "hide" your profile from the public with the check of a box. Then you would have never found it and neither would anyone else. Also, Match sends e-mails every few days to members, even non paying ones. For your H to say it is 7 years old and he "forgot" is a bunch of crap. They would have deleted account if the e-mails got bounced back OR if he was not signing in. Beware and be careful.

Yeah, and he says he "Forgot" the password, too.
I tried logging in his account as forgot password, but it just sent it to his email addy of which I dont know that password, too.
Something smells fishy.
Oh, and I wonder, if people on that site are interested in you, and they want to email you, does the emails go to your email addy (Such as yahoo or hotmail) or is there an email set up on the site itself?
What I really want to know is the LAST time he logged on. Does it show that once you sign in??
Thanks for all the support.

My counselor told my wife, a woman's intuition is rarely wrong. And my wife was usually right even when I was in denial.

I performed a search using the gender looking for gender age through age in zipcode and it shows last active for the profile. Have you tried doing that? All the pictures that appeared said either 24 hours, 2 days, 5 days, or something along that line.

I would think that would be the last logon time.

Maybe someone here who already has a profile can try to "hook up" with your H. That way you can know if it is a current membership.

This depends on how he set up preferences. And he can not respond to any e-mails if he doesn't pay. Most likely he is a non paying member who just surfs. He can't repsond to e-mails becaus ehe is not paying. It also tells you how many people look at his profile...

I went on the site when I was first divorced. I did not get much interest at first. Then I put up a picture and I got a lot of interest. I did not like how folks misrepresent themselves. People lied about everything INCLUDING their marital status. I quit after a few months. I did meet some nice women on the site and actually dated one for a couple of months...it happens..

ask away...I know all about the site....

It will tell you the last time he logged in..

Did match.com even exist 7 years ago?

WAT
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A happy match.com "graduate"

Thanks again for the support.
I have asked him for the password. What would I expect to find (assuming he gives it to me) as far as activity and last log in dates? If I log in under him with his password, wouldnt that show log in as today?? Would that erase the very last date I need to find out?
When I click on his profile itself under my name (I had to create a name, but did not finish, but was enough to get me in and find him....it doesnt say last visited dates. He also has no picture.
Thanks so much.

ok, get Ardamax Keylogger Lite. Unfortunately, the lite version (free) has an icon in the system tray whenever it's running. I think the full version is relatively cheap, and you can run it in stealth mode (meaning there will be no icon in the system tray, and they claim it wont appear in the ctrl-alt-delete end task list, either) You could buy it and download it to your own little hidey-hole on your hard drive, run it in stealth mode and then read EVERY SINGLE CHARACTER HE TYPES, because he'd never know it was running or that it even exists on your pc. THEN you'd know ALL of his passwords, and what he is typing to people. Another great feature is that it records EVERY keystroke, so when they type and then backspace over what they typed, it records what they typed AND all the backspaces. If a key gets pressed, it gets recorded into the log. Doing a quick select and delete when you walk into the room wont help him with THIS program! if you are still having this problem, please give it a try.

Thanks for the suggestion.
But, I cant legally do this. His puter is is office puter and to make matters worse, he NEVER touches the home puter. He also keeps his office puter locked if he keeps it home and he is away.
So, that isnt an option for me, unfortunately. I caught my exhusband this way and it does work. But, I cant in this case <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Sorry I couldn't help... but hey -give us all the information and one of us will try to hook up with him and then...well...you'll have your answer. Keep your wits about you. This is a very frustrating step in the process for us BS's. I'm here for ya.

Thank you <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
I dont think he would dare hook up w/ anyone right now.
Thanks for the support <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
I dont even know if I am a BS yet. It just doesnt feel right, though, you know?? It is consuming too much of my time and energy and taking time away from the kids. It is causing stress and depression.

Well, he did give me the password....but it was an assigned password, not the kind you choose. Like it was changed on purpose.
The account was inactivated when I logged on and just gave no information <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Thanks for the support, everyone.