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Go to the IG nearest you, easier for you, and gets 2 IGs involved for the price of 1.
"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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Just go to the Post IG at Fort Lewis. You can call ANY Army IG ANYWHERE on the planet. What the IG at Fort Lewis will do will take your IGAR (Inspector General Action Request) and lock it into the IG worldwide database. He will then route the IGAR to the closest IG to your husband. Shoot, if you dont live close to Fort Lewis, and you cant find the numbers...you can just call the Department of Army IG...and they will route it down. If I was still an IG, I could get the phone numbers for you. Hold on a sec.... First, here is an information link on filing with the IG and how it works. Very informative! http://wwwpublic.ignet.army.mil/File_Ccc.htmHere is the Fort Lewis IG website: http://www.lewis.army.mil/ig/Okay, here are some numbers for you: http://www.lewis.army.mil/ig/direct.htmHope this helps. Let me know how it goes. In His arms.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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I am so scared, I am going to write the written complaint and give it to the IG office. I don't even know where to begin... my H's sexual addiction? Or just dive right in to the alleged affair?
I am crying, I don't know where to start Jen, Stop. You dont need to write anything. Call the office and an IG will talk with you and walk you through it. They know what they need from you and will ask you all of the pertinent questions they need to get things started. They may also be able to keep confidential that it was you that filed. They generally dont let the subject know who complained or where they got their information. So, your husband may not knwo it was you and think it could be anyone that saw them or knows about it. Call the IG and let them help you. It is what they get paid to do. In His arms.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Okay, I am breathing now.
Thank you so much for the links. The IG office is closed today (Thursdays) but the hospital branch is open. I called and they said they would accept a written statement at any time. The reason I would prefer to do a written statement is because I have a S4 whom I would have to take with me. I don't want him to hear these horrible things. That's fine. Just understand, they may need to ask further questions, as you may not put in everything they need. I am acting on this today, my H is going to PLDC on the 14th, so I hope they can investigate during that time. Will they pull him out because of the investigation? No. They will investigate when they have the time. Yours isnt the only IGAR they have. One of the IGs will be assigned the case and they will investigate it. Might take a few days...maybe even a week or two depending on their caseload. Will they laugh at me for an accusation of adultery with no proof? His AKO account was FULL of porn, so they can at least make him get help for that, right? They wont laugh...they are professionals and have seen this same stuff a bunch of times. Was it his AKO account that you saw the emails from the OW?? In His arms.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Well here is the thing, MM.
I have no proof of the affair. Just him using her name as a password. And a buch of gut-feeling stuff you can't take to court.
I don't know if I can make a baseless allegation like that. Would they have to investigate anyway? (I put a draft letter on my other thread.) I am perfectly willing to talk to them, just want to get the ball rolling today.
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Well here is the thing, MM.
I have no proof of the affair. Just him using her name as a password. And a buch of gut-feeling stuff you can't take to court.
I don't know if I can make a baseless allegation like that. Would they have to investigate anyway? (I put a draft letter on my other thread.) I am perfectly willing to talk to them, just want to get the ball rolling today. Again, first of all...did you see any emails between them on his AKO account? As I said before, the IG is not the JAG. The IG doesnt go to court, the JAG does. The IG doesnt need "beyond a reasonable doubt." He just needs a "preponderence of the evidence." Which means if it smells wrong, it is wrong. I'll look at that letter in a sec. Obviously the more info you can give him, the better. If you know he was using his AKO account for porno, that alone will get them involved. Then you are throwing in the accusation of adultery. And they will investiate that also. Do you have any other info besides him using her password? You see, if they go in on the porno issue, they will check his emails. While there, I am willing to bet there are emails between them. But again, what else do you know? In His arms.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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