Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 89
Member
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 89 |
I am in the final stages of my divorce waiting for the settlement papers and then if they are Ok I guess we are almost through. I am just sad that after 14 years of marriage and two children we are at this point.
He calls a lot, but never says anything about working this out, just comments about what he needs to buy for the house, etc. He will be moving into our family home and I will be moving out with the children. That also makes me sad.
Some days I just wake up in a fog and wonder what happened and wish we could go back, but I know that is not possible. My H has had a friend for the past year and a half and is still talking to her. I told him I could not work on anything as long as she is in the picture. Promised me she was out and then he called her two days later.
Part of me hopes that if we do divorce once I get relocated and all maybe he will miss me and the family, but I think I am dreaming. He has told me he will not come begging back - not that he has even indicated he wants to come back with true feelings. He mentions it but does not want to do any work just wants me to pretend like nothing happened.
Sorry I am babbling just a down day. I am hoping that they go away sometime soon.
Thanks.
|
|
|
Moderated by Ariel, BerlinMB, Denali, Fordude, IrishGreen, MBeliever, MBsurvivor, MBSync, McLovin, Mizar, PhoenixMB, Toujours
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,524
Members72,031
|
Most Online6,102 Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|