It literally has been a while since I've posted (about a month)...Everyone probably doesn't even remember me by now! Anyway. Bad night tonight. I'm just an emotional rollercoaster (aren't we all?). We filed for divorce 2.5 weeks ago. It's final on Tuesday. The house closes on the 31st and I'm moving from Florida, back to Louisiana (for a month) then to Texas.

He came by tonight to give me money for half the bills and when he left we just hugged each other and I cried. I realized that I don't deserve to be treated like this...none of us do. I’m young and moving on with my life. Just wanted to let you guys know....

BW 26 me
WH 29
Married 06-20-2003
- Moved to this state 08-01-2004
- Friendship between my WH and the OW began in 11-2004 then the A began I believe around 03-2005
- DDay 09-17-2005
- Plan A - didn't work...was still contacting the OW
- Asked him to leave (Plan B)Wednesday, 01/11/2006
- Back at home as of tonight (02/01/2006) Said the fog had permanently lifted from him (we were going to sell the house and move...all we did was fight until we filed D papers)
- Filed Divorce papers on 2/14
- Divorce final 03/07
- moving home

Can read more about what has happenend on the link below:

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...page=24#2909276

KDee, so sorry to hear that....{{{KDee}}}

You got married just one day before I did.....so I know how you feel, the whole M being so short. Wondering how it could be over, we just got married!

Take care of yourself today!

Daisy

Wow. That was fast. Now try not to get involved with anyone else for 2 years. His affair will probably end, and he will be back trying to get with you again.

That was very quick! So sorry it turned out like this, KDee. If you get out to Longview, give me a shout. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Thanks for everything everyone. He had been asking since we filed for me not to do this. But at the same time still talking to the OW. He said the affair is over...yet in my mind if there is still any form of contact, then it's not over. He said/says he feels nothing for her...in fact she may be leaving the place where they work (how convenient now), and that he doesn't want her...or want to be with her or anything. It's hard to believe anything that comes out of his mouth..

Yeah Daisy...what short marriages....just really blows becauase we've been together for 6 years and would have been married 3 in June...But, life goes on...just glad i don't have any kids. And yeah, I DO have a feeling he will try to come back, but that's not what's on my mind now. I don't want to get into another relationship for a long time...I'm going to take time for me....fix me, be on my own and just take care of myself...something I have never done.

Thanks Melody..i might take you up on that!!

Hi KDee, I have never heard of a divorce happening that fast. 3 weeks from filing to the final divorce!! Wow!!

Anyway....I hope and pray all the best for you.

Lady

KDee-

Was it a dissolution? I've never heard of something going that fast.....actually not even a dissolution, there's like a 45 day waiting period between when you file and when you can go to court.

I'm sorry that things are going this way for you.

I hope that you will be okay.

God Bless,

-Caren

Actually yes, a simplified dissolution of marriage. As long as both party's agree on everything being split in half (well i'm getting all the furniture..) and don't have any kids and have tried everything to save the marriage, then it just takes 3 weeks. i was pretty shocked at that myself. It was around $380 and we go to court 3 weeks to the date we filed. At least it'll be over soon....

hope everyone has a great weekend...i plan on it!!!

BW 26 me
WH 29
Married 06-20-2003
- Moved to this state 08-01-2004
- Friendship between my WH and the OW began in 11-2004 then the A began I believe around 03-2005
- DDay 09-17-2005
- Plan A - didn't work...was still contacting the OW
- Asked him to leave (Plan B)Wednesday, 01/11/2006
- Back at home as of tonight (02/01/2006) Said the fog had permanently lifted from him (we were going to sell the house and move...all we did was fight until we filed D papers)
- Filed Divorce papers on 2/14
- Divorce final 03/07
- moving home