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Praying for you and yours Dazed.


Me-41 BS (FWS)
DH-41 WS (FBS)
2DD's- 10 and 12
Married 15 years
Separated for 2 years after my A
Reconciled for 1 year before his A
D-day for his A 8/23/05
WH moved out 9/16/05
Divorce final 1/23/07
Affair ended or month or so later
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My popcorn is getting stale, Dazed!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Thoughts are with you!!!!

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BH(me)-46, FWW-43, DS-12, DD-14
A- 6-25-05 'til 5-06...Was Recovered! Back at it on 8/14
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11 days and counting.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

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Dazed,
I've been following your story. It parallels my own in many ways. Especially your looooong timeline. Please take a minute and let us all know you are still there.
Thanks!


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Hey Lexxxy and others~
I'm really busy here at work and with many other things going on. I'm working on getting my home on the market this week. Also working on selling some more personal possessions that would be really nice to get money out of.

Things are okay with me. I have reached a new level of learning to keep my focus on what I can do and control. In other words do what is right for me and let the chips fall where they may.

WW did see OM Friday while I was out of town. I drilled her Sunday about it. Told her nicely and harshly to get out of my life, I'm too tired to take any more.

She did not leave. So, I pretty much ignored her Sunday and Monday other than let her know what I feel like. Which was not very good.

She told me Monday night she wants to move forward and agreed to leave monkey boy alone. I told her that a no contact plan is what I'm expecting. Anything less than that does not build trust and faith that the affair is over. Until then I will not join into buying anything together or for that matter anything else together.

Daughter did get hurt in a swimming pool Saturday while under WW's watch. Surgery for her broken nose is Friday morning.

WW is still sneaking around and telling more lies to everyone.
BTW~Key logger is now up and running...

With school ending this week, I can begin to make plans for moving on. Deal with legal, housing, etc.
I'm just not going to continue to deal with OM's girl friend. As long as she continues to sneak around and lie to everyone, and not be a wife to me, then I'm just done.

I have to run for now. I will try to come back later.

btw~I have a new user name that the wife has access to as well. I was hoping to tease her into coming on the boards with it. Or atleast see my postings under the new user name.

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((((dazed))))

Thanks for the update, we've been thinking of you.


Me-41 BS (FWS)
DH-41 WS (FBS)
2DD's- 10 and 12
Married 15 years
Separated for 2 years after my A
Reconciled for 1 year before his A
D-day for his A 8/23/05
WH moved out 9/16/05
Divorce final 1/23/07
Affair ended or month or so later
My Story
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