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In the Beginning ........ there were books and more books!!! #1606010 03/05/06 01:20 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 18 P PrincessMisery OP Junior Member
OP PrincessMisery Junior Member P Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 18	How did everyone get started on the right road? I have been married for 2 years and from the beginning it started going downhill. I just sort of stumbled onto this website and was wondering where to start? I just got the workbook, is that a good place to start or is there something else we should try to do before that? I really couldn’t find a place on here to let me know the real process of where to start. I know the basics of the needs and what love busters are. But what was everyone’s actual first step in this process? Ordering his counseling sessions? I also know about the 15 hours…….should that be going on during the love busters identification inventories? We need so much help! All this information is so overwhelming! Thanks for anyone who can help put me on the right track! Married -6yrs/together 8 Me-31 Him-31 Son-6 Daughter-1 Baby Boy to be born next month! I know we're just like old friends We just can't pretend That lovers make amends We are reasons so unreal We can't help but feel that something has been lost Don't give up your independence Unless it feels so right Nothing good comes easily Sometimes you gotta fight

Re: In the Beginning ........ there were books and more books!!! PrincessMisery #1606011 03/06/06 12:41 AM
Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 601 Indianapolis IN US S silverpool Member
silverpool Member S Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 601 Indianapolis IN US	I got His needs Her needs for both of us - and called around for a counsellor whom was familiar with it - you don't HAVE to go to Harley. Then we started (at home) filling out the EN questionare so we had some stuff to discuss with the counsellor. Then we have continued working on things with the counsellor ever since (together about the marriage and alone to work on us, so we can grow past our resistance to some of the steps we need to take) and slowly we are finding out some stuff from this site and some from the counselling that explains why we do things and feel the way we do, that helps us with the changes we each need to make to improve things. Me BSx2 63 1st M 13yrs WS Multiple As. DD45 DD43 DS41 first marriage. Him WS 56 P/A. PA + Multiple EAs from day one. Current M. 26years D Days 10/02, 11/02, 01/03, right up to 03/06 NC since 03/2006 Me Stage IV Breast Cancer since 36months, Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us (Hebrews 12:1).Titus wife, Linda

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