Help, it seems like my original post is being ignored so I am starting another one in hopes of assistance.
After intense "interigation" tactics, my husband admitted to 3 other discrections. 1 was with his ex-wife, right after we got together, which I totally understand, as they had a long marriage, I even told him to really sit back and think about making a commitment to me, if there was any chance they could make their marriage work. He assured me it was over between them. Silly me, I thought when a relationship is over, that really meant OVER!!!!! Let me assure everyone,right off, they were totally and legally DIVORCED before I ever went out with him. I would have backed off though if they thought they had any chance to make it work again,I really would have been understanding, but he lied to me.
That's what I am having a hard time with, he swore on his Mother's life, that he only "strayed" the one time, I mean do they have an OSCAR for the most convincing/believable WS' lie catagory? to top it off he informs me that he "PAID" two different woman on his route to have sex with him. One of the "ladies" was also married, he went back for seconds with her. What kind of sick monster is he???
He doesn't do drugs nor drinks, so what is his excuse? I am so angry, that I want to tell everyone what he is and what he has done. I am so sick.
Please tell me why people do this to each other?

Post in General Questions, there are more people to help there.

Naive, I second JJ's suggestion. Those pros whose thoughts you want to tap don't spend much time in "Just Found Out." Come to GQ II and give us a full explanation of the events, as well as the timeline, okay?

And...a hint. Please separate what you write into paragraphs. One long paragraph makes it too easy for the reader's eye to slide right over an important point you might be trying to make.

Hang in there, Lady.

thanks, I will