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getting worried.

please please pray that I get the job tomorrow.

they are going into the meeting in the morning.

I am nervous. very very nervous.

It would be so great for ds and I..no more calls, nights spent sleeping on gurney at hospital, no long fifteen hour days sometimes...and lighter load and more money.

we really need it...the little bit of alimony I get will run out next year...1.5 years from now. so I need this.

please please pray.

and pray for calm nerves tomorrow.

feels truly like calm before the storm.

thank you friends. this is THE job...the job that can really make a positive difference.


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you got it peachy! Prayers and positive vibes headed your way from NJ...hope you accept good wishes from a yankee. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Good luck tomorrow and yes, I'll be praying for you. It's funny, when I was praying for you, I was calling you "justpeachy" b/c I don't know your real name--but figured God knows who justpeachy is!


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Prayer to you. I think you will be just fine.

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Stay strong, our prayers are with you!

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peachy,

You got it my friend all the prayers you need are going up now .......

Good Luck.....


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Got you in my heart and mind, Peach.

Hugz and support from the middle of the big blue. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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My prayers are with you too.
I'm sure God knows who Peachy is. I'll just add you to my list.

Please,let us know what happens.
with prayer,

VTY

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You deserve it Peach and it's yours.


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Prayers going upward for you, from me that you get this job... and a candle for good luck..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Don't be nervous, you can do this....!!

GOOD LUCK AND PRAYERS FRANK

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Thanks friends:) thank you SO VERY VERY MUCH!

Ok. am a bit worried here. NO word yet.

Nada.

Checked email, vmail, etc.

Nothing.

They had the meeting this morning.

when should I worry? when is too long to have waited? when would they contact me?


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Still have you in my prayers.

After the meeting they probably had to have the offer typed up and get paperwork in order. Did they say how and when they will notify you?


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they did not say...just that they are making their decision today (this was last wednesday) and they had the final interview the day after mine ...there was only one other person there. it was/went quite well.

she said she'd be getting back to me after the meeting but did not say when...so I am on pins/needles until then.


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Prayers here for you too. I understand you are a nurse Peachy...have you ever considered doing clinical research either at a study site or perhaps working as a trial leader (many clinial trial leaders started in nursing) in the pharma industry? Either option might give you more stable hours and income.


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hey..

no..NOT NURSE...in very specialized area of medicine...and can't have unfortunately that option...

no word yet.

just ready to go back 2 private practice....in my area, we can also work with a private practice.


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Peach,

I am pulling for you and praying..... Lets us know.....


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Just checking in on you.
Praying for a peaceful night your way tonight.


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ok now you have me curious

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no..NOT NURSE...in very specialized area of medicine...and can't have unfortunately that option...


If you don't mind sharing...what kind of health care professional? Physician? Physician Assistant? Phelbotomy? Nuclear med tech? Radiology? Physical Therapy? Message Therapy? Sex Therapy? Chiropractor? EKG tech? Crisis Intervention? IV Therapy? Case Management?....

not that it really matters...I still hope you get the job...just curious. I am a RN working as Home Care Discharge Planner in the "deadliest city in the US" (Camden NJ).


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DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
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Nuclear med w/advanced training (b.s., pet, nuclear cardiology) . will be applying to practicioner school for ms this fall.

GOOD NEWS! just got in email from practice manager.

they were UNABLE TO lasso all the docs together for the meeting yesterday. It is NEXT TUESDAY instead. She was kind, apologetic for the delay, and said that SHE WILL BE IN TOUCH after that and thanked me.

I kindly emailed her with a "revised" contact phone number for one of my references this morning along with a number for a physician reference (guy I know well) and she promptly returned the email within say fifteen minutes. So that means she is interested.?? Yes? No?

Is this good/bad?

Tell me what ya think...?

was 2 terrified last night to post...got really down this morning. Now feel a tad better though <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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ha ha...confused...you kill me...me a sex therapist? I could only dream...in fact, I forget what goes where...lol!

friend of mine, professional one, told me to "pretend" to send another reference and revise another contact number in an email to her...that way, if she is NOT INTERESTED, or that if I was not the chosen candidate (there is only one more...a guy with same years experience as me), then they'd let me know asap.

But she was quick in her response, and it was good. hope it was good anyway.


me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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