I felt a need to start this post to you because of something you said on my Plan B thread.

First, I so do not have any courage, but thank you for saying that. I am scared to death. The people with courage are the ones here who give the advice and lead us in the right direction and follow the Harley Plan and know how to stick to it. They have given me not courage, but strength.

They have taught me so much and I have learned that even though every marriage can't be saved, the learning experiences here and the common bond allow us to grow as people and become better and learn to relate in a more healthy way.

This place is the best place to be and I wish you luck in your marriage. But listen to these people. Though their opinions differ on some things, they all have the same goal in mind, to help you stick to your plan and better yourself. Trust them, listen to them and read, read, read.

thank you for the words of wisdom, hopefully I will be to the point you are at in your life sometime soon. I have just ordered SAA, and will hopefully have it by the weekend. I understand that knowledge is wisdom, but I feel at this point I'm not very knowledgable or wise. My thought process has not come to any sort of logical thinking. Hopefully with the MB and reading material I can make some sort of sense out of the insanity.
Congratulations on regaining your strength and continue on that same road

Kim, there is no logic in any of this. You can't begin to feel logical about something like this. Just be strong. Worry about taking care of you. Your hubby is irrational right now and there is no reasoning with him. Good luck to you. SAA is awesome and I hope you gain knowledge from reading it.